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Friday, 5 April 2013

5 Signs That Your Man Is Cheating



A woman’s greatest fear in a relationship is that her man has someone on the side. These are some warning signs that hint that your man is not being entirely faithful.

1, Sudden Changes in His Appearance

If your man starts transforming into a different person, it may be more than ordinary. According to Danine Manette, private investigator and author of “Ultimate Betrayal”, “A man who drastically alters his clothing style, appearance or body shape for no apparent reason may be having an affair. Perhaps the other woman has suggested he grow a beard, wear his hair differently or use cologne. If he’s dressing differently for work, there may be a coworker he’s trying to impress.” explains Manette. If your man was appearance conscious before, this will not be a problem, but if he makes an overnight u-turn and only wants to look good when going to a particular place, it is definitely a red flag.

2, He’s acting odd around his laptop and phone

One of the top signs to look out for is if he’s acting strangely around his phone, laptop and/or Facebook account. If he suddenly changes his passwords, erases his web history, or gets angry when you go near anywhere near any of them then hear the warning bells.

The internet and mobile phones are the easiest way for men to play away and if he’s got something to hide, he’ll find a way of hiding it so watch out when things start to look suspicious.

3, His Attitude Towards You Changes

Changes in his mood can point to more than just stressful times at work. “Men often get fidgety or irritable when they’re supposed to be in two places at once. If the other woman demands more of his time, he may start arguments with you so he can storm out and rendezvous with her,” says Manette. If he’s not only picking fights, but also criticizing you for things that hadn’t bothered him before, like your appearance, eating habits or intelligence, it’s probably not about the way you chew your food or the 5 pounds you’ve gained, but really about another woman. “Cheating creates a lot of internal turmoil and tension, which gets played out between the two of you.

4, Changes In Habits
Acting out of character for no reason is another sign that your man might be cheating. He’s most likely cheating if he goes out earlier or more often. Also pay attention to how much time he spends away from home. If his hobbies become more frequent and tend to last longer than before then it could be a sign to panic.
Also, be extra suspicious if he is unreachable when he is away from home. If he says he’s working late, but doesn’t pick up his phone or read his texts, that’s a bad sign.

5, Your Female Instinct
The most revealing sign that your man is probably cheating is that feeling you have that things are not quite right.
Danine says, ” You know your partner better than anyone else and you will be the first to notice changes in behaviour and changes in the way he interacts with you in general.” Most women see the signs that their man is cheating but they ignore them or find a suitable explanation for their partner’s strange behaviour.

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